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10 Great Tips for Husbands

  1. Listen, listen, listen! Put down that newspaper (or television remote control)

     and let her know your focus is on her.

  2. When she tells you her problems, try not to jump in with advice. A sympathetic ear may be all she needs. 

  3. Schedule a date with her once a week. And it doesn’t have to be expensive.

     The goal is simply to create time for just the two of you.

  4. Surprise her with little things that show your affection– a note, a funny

     card, a small gift, or flowers for no reason. She needs to feel you’re

     thinking of her.

  5. Do little day-to-day things that make her feel taken care of– like filling

     her empty water glass, bringing her coffee in bed or turning down her side

     of the bed if you go to sleep before her. 

  6. Connect with her physically during the day. Kiss her when you wake up, hold

     her hand sometimes, touch her in non-sexual ways. She’ll be nicer to you

     and your sex life may improve. 

  7. Let the kids be your responsibility now and then. That way, she’ll get some

     time for herself for a change. 

  8. Respect her. Don’t make fun of her or embarrass her just because she doesn’t think the same way you do. 

  9. When you’re angry or upset, tell her why. Don’t make her guess. 

  10. Compliment her. And tell her you love her – at least once a day.

   Based on the book… How to Be the Almost Perfect Husband: By Wives Who Know by J.S. Salt. To learn more, visit: joel@shakethatbrain.com

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